NodeStore's writer goroutine now resolves GivenName collisions inside
applyBatch: on PutNode/UpdateNode the landing label gets -N appended
until unique, matching Tailscale SaaS. Empty labels fall back to the
literal "node".
SetGivenName exposes the admin-rename path: validates via
dnsname.ValidLabel and rejects on collision with ErrGivenNameTaken,
so renames do not silently rewrite behind the caller.
Updates #3188
Updates #2926
Updates #2343
Updates #2762
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